The Right Time to Have Sex

The Right Time to Explore Your Intimacy with WildNightX

 

When is the best time to explore new sexual experiences? Are you a late-night lover, or do you prefer a slow morning roll between the sheets? Whatever your preferences are, they’re totally valid. But thinking about when we most like to have sex, we started wondering: what time of day do couples usually engage in intimacy? And how many of us have started scheduling sex to make sure we never miss out on those precious moments?

We surveyed over 1,000 sexually active adults to uncover the answers, and here's what we discovered.

1. Scheduling Sex: A Solution or a Chore?

In today’s busy world, sex can sometimes take a backseat to work, kids, or other responsibilities. But for many couples, scheduling sex is a practical solution. It’s like setting aside quality time for intimacy—something to look forward to.

According to our survey, two out of five adults actively schedule sex. While some may find it awkward to see "7:00 PM: Sexy time" right under “6:00 PM: Put the kids to bed,” others find this planning incredibly helpful for maintaining a fulfilling sexual life.

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2. Spontaneity vs. Scheduling: Which One Works for You?

Though 60% of people prefer spontaneous sex, planning ahead can build anticipation. It’s not about rigidity but about creating an opportunity for connection.

For couples who don’t have much free time, like busy professionals or parents, scheduling sex can bring a new level of excitement. It lets you prepare mentally and physically for the moment.

Tip: Using toys like anal plugs or incorporating a spanking paddle can make scheduled sex even more thrilling. By introducing these tools, both partners can get excited even before the planned moment arrives.

3. When Do Couples Really Get Intimate?

So, when do most people have sex? The majority prefer to get frisky late at night (61%), followed by early evening (14%) and only 10% who enjoy morning intimacy.

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4. Is There Really a "Perfect" Time for Sex?

Is there an ideal time of day for sex? Opinions vary, but some suggest morning is best, as men’s testosterone levels are highest. Others suggest mid-afternoon when hormones sync up for both partners.

Tip: No matter what time of day you prefer, adding products like blindfolds or anal plugs can intensify any experience, helping you create new forms of connection and pleasure.

5. Different Times for Different Types of Sex

While most sex happens at night, some types of intimacy, like BDSM or anal sex, are more popular in the late afternoon.

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Final Thoughts

There’s no one-size-fits-all when it comes to the perfect time for sex. It’s about finding what works for you and your partner. Whether it’s a spontaneous night or a planned session, intimacy is about curiosity, comfort, and the right tools.

Tip: Explore the WildNightX collection for tools that can elevate your experience and help you bring your intimacy to new levels—at any time of day.


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