How do you spice up your sex life?

Try one new thing at a time. A game helps, because nobody has to ask and nobody has to hear no. You roll, you draw, you laugh, and the night takes it from there.

How do you play the blindfold guessing game?

She lies back on the pillow and puts on the Blindfold. You leave one slow kiss at a time, and she guesses where the next one lands. Right guess, she picks the next spot.

Why use a pillow for game night?

Because a bed pillow goes flat and slides the second someone moves. The WildNightX Pillow holds a fixed 27° angle on a grip base, so nobody props up on tired arms and the game keeps going.

8 Sex Games for Couples Who Are Tired of the Same Old Night. #1 Needs Just One Pillow and the Blindfold That Comes With It…

Q: What are good sex games for couples?

Games that are easy to start and fun on their own, like couples dice, truth or dare, or a dare jar. Our top pick is the blindfold guessing game, played on the WildNightX Pillow.

Short answer: The best sex games for couples are easy to start, fun on their own, and tend to end in bed, like couples dice, truth or dare, or a dare jar. Our top pick is the blindfold guessing game on the WildNightX Pillow, played with the free Blindfold that comes with it.

Most couples don't lose the spark. It gets buried. One Reddit user summed up his week in six words: "Work. Home. Kids. Dinner. Sleep. Repeat."

By the time the dishes are done, bed just means sleep. And asking for more can feel like one more chore, or one more chance to hear no.

A game changes that. Nobody has to ask. You roll, you draw, you laugh, and the night takes it from there. So we picked 8 sex games for couples that are easy to start, fun on their own, and tend to end up in bed. Game #1 needs one thing most couples don't own yet.

Why trying something new pays off, according to a psychologist

"Couples who introduce one new thing once a month or more enjoy heightened sexual satisfaction."

Dr. Nicole McNichols, a psychologist who teaches over 4,000 undergrads a year at the University of Washington, speaking to CNN

Note: Read about sex games for couples BEFORE another night of TV!

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1. The Blindfold Guessing Game on the WildNightX Pillow (Our Top Pick)

WildNightX Pillow on a bed with the free Blindfold

What you need: the WildNightX Pillow and the free Blindfold that ships with it.

How to play: she lies back on the pillow and puts on the Blindfold. You leave one slow kiss at a time. Her wrist. Her shoulder. Her neck. She guesses where the next one lands. Right guess, she picks the next spot. Wrong guess, you do.

Why the pillow makes it work: a folded bed pillow goes flat and slides the second she moves. The WildNightX Pillow holds a fixed 27° angle the whole time, on a silicone grip base that stays put. Its dense memory foam holds 260+ lbs without sinking. No tired arms. No stopping to fix pillows. The game just keeps going, wherever it goes.

The extras: Buy 1, Get 1 Free: every pillow ships with the Blindfold for this game. It arrives in discreet packaging with no product or store name outside, and it's backed by a 30-Day Guarantee. Now $124.95 (was $169.95).

2. Couples Dice

Two wooden couples dice with heart, star and arrow symbols next to blank game cards on a bed

What you need: two couples dice and a few blank cards.

How to play: give each symbol a meaning and write it on a card. Heart is a kiss. Star is a whisper in the ear. Arrow means move somewhere new. Take turns rolling, and do what the dice say for one full minute.

Luck takes the pressure off. Nobody planned it. The dice did.

3. The Hands-Off Challenge

A black satin blindfold and soft padded cuffs laid on a dark red bed

What you need: a timer, plus the free Leather Handcuff that comes with any WildNightX bundle. Or just a promise.

How to play: set ten minutes. One of you keeps both hands out of play. The other gets to tease with slow kisses and light touches. No touching back. Then switch.

Wanting what you can't reach builds fast. Good luck making it to the second timer.

★★★★★

"I flirt with my husband now"

Sandy, August 20265-star review

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4. The Massage Timer Swap

A bottle of massage oil, a small coupon booklet, a towel and a candle on a bed

What you need: massage oil, a towel and a phone timer.

How to play: five minutes each. The one getting the massage can only say three words: slower, softer, there. Every swap, add one minute.

Tip: lean back on the pillow from #1. Its contoured, chair-like shape makes a cozy backrest. By the third swap, nobody is watching the clock.

5. Yes, No, Maybe

A stack of handwritten letters tied with a red ribbon next to a framed couple photo

What you need: two pens and two sheets of paper.

How to play: each of you lists ten things you might like to try. A new room. A weekend away. A morning instead of a night. Swap lists and mark each one yes, no or maybe. Only talk about the shared yeses.

A no on paper doesn't sting. And the yes list becomes your plan. Sexologist Jessica O'Reilly, PhD, told Women's Health: "The best sex is often explorative and adaptable"

6. Truth or Dare, Couples Edition

Gift box on a bed with a breakfast tray, a candle, a card deck and a vinyl record

How to play: take turns. Truths stay sweet: What did you notice first about me? When did you know? Dares get bolder: Kiss my neck for one full minute. Slow dance with me, right now.

The truths pull you close. The dares make you brave.

7. The Dare Jar

A glass jar full of folded paper slips on a coffee table

What you need: a jar and a stack of paper slips.

How to play: each of you writes ten small dares. Fold them, mix them, drop them in. Each night this week, one of you pulls a slip after dinner. Everyone gets one free pass.

Slip in a few that just say: bring the pillow.

8. The All-Day Text Tease

A woman in her 30s at her office desk smiling at a flirty text on her phone

How to play: send one flirty text every few hours. A memory. A compliment. A hint. After dinner, send just this: Blindfold's on the bed. Game #1.

By bedtime, you've both been thinking about it all day. That's half the game.

Why game night fizzles: the games aren't the problem. The bed is. Right when it gets good, someone is propped on tired arms and a bed pillow slides away. That's why #1 is a pillow. It holds the angle, so nobody has to.

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